Imagine

You 'like' someone.
That 'someone' also 'likes' you.

You are both CASUAL AQUANTAINCES at the moment. Both want something more.
You go to an event where that someone is also present. You were hoping but not expecting that person to be there. As are also several of your common acquaintances.

All through the event you stick to a corner. BECAUSE the way you feel about that certain someone, your unable to go up and say Hello. You don't want others to
notice.

The situation becomes so bad that you almost end up ignoring that 'someone'.

Now sometime later you do the usual thing. You 'try to converse' ‘move forward’. You notice certain stiffness, certain reluctance perhaps.

THIS continues. Nothing is being said, but you can sense it...its evident.

You realize 'WHY'

Being the person you are, you ASK -- if anything is wrong or did any of you actions caused some issue

-- 'No, Not at all'
-- 'Alright'

Hence you go back being where you were and you try again.
Same story..only more so, its almost an unsaid anger!. Like the person is confused weather to be angry or not!

Your budding relationship is in jeopardy.

1. You apologize?....And how do you assume you DID something....... wrong? and apologize for what? feeling
the way yo do... 2. Does the other person realize WHY you acted the way you did?3. And if nothing 'IS' wrong, then.......?


Imagine again

You 'like' someone.That 'someone' also 'likes' you.
It feels nice and natural.

Now you go to a event after a long absence of sorts. You hope to meet that 'someone'. You are with few of your buddies and other common acquaintances.

Its a warm sunny day and you wud like to say Hello.

You try but someone is just not looking you way. 'WHY'. You think its rude. You feel hurt ?
Another day someone says 'Hi'. Like always the person smiles.....Do you see a smirk?. You are angry?


How do you show your anger to a 'Casual Acquaintance’? You want an apology??.

-- ' Is anything wrong, did you mind my......'
-- ' Off course not' (don't you see it!!!!)
-- 'Alright'

'What??'
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